Things to do for your woman: A Woman’s P.O.V.

Alright.

It’s not a rip-off from Kavilan’s entry but I thought that you guys probably would like to know what we FEEL or WOULD LIKE. It’s more on the “A Woman’s Point of View”.

Wanna know what simple things a guy can do to make his (read: not necessarily) woman happy?

You don’t need to be RICH in the pockets… just rich in the BRAINS. Oh. And HEART. Lol.

• Don’t ALWAYS give her gifts.
  Okay, this may sound cruel to the women but I’m rather serious. In my own experience with life & men, I realize that you tend to appreciate the man/men more when they give you a gift once in a blue moon. A girl always like to comment on how other people’s bf tend to do stuffs for the gfs, “her bf bought her this shades, her bf the other day gave her a watch!!, omgg… u know what her bf gave her???!”
  Then the girl gives up expecting anything from her bf. When the expectation dies, that’s when you should present her with something sweet. i.e. earrings, a simple chain, a box of nice chocolates, a cute top..
  You might not realize it but she’ll love u a hundred times more upon receiving it from you. Coz you’re not simply out there to PLEASE her. You’re just being yourself and that’s what she likes. A man of his own mind. And life.
• Take her for a walk.
  Yes. A simple thing. Walking. It not only makes her happy but it’s also good for your health. Ok, health issues aside. Do it in a creative way….. ask her, like you’re gonna propose to her, “Dear Sally (no, I don’t know who is Sally).. would you like the honor of taking a walk with me on this beautiful night?” She’s definitely going to laugh at your face, thanks to your cheesy line. BUT. Inside her heart, she’ll already be melting, thinking what kinda sweet bf she’s gotten hold of. Oh yeah. While taking a walk, always remember :
  - Hold her hands (till your palms get sweaty) (once its dried, hold hands again)
  - Choose a route where you won’t bump into your friends & screw up your reputation for being a “Sweeeet bf”.
  - Don’t walk along the houses of the beautiful, hot chicas. Once they see you walking with your gf, they’ll be thinking what kinda loving bf you are & will hate/despise you instantly the moment you even TRY to hit on them.
• Fix things around her house.
  When she complains that the bathroom light is not working, just say “Hahahahahaha. That’s why, bathe laa for 2 hours some more.. which light won’t spoil!!” and then, hurry to the nearest kedai runcit & buy a ’starter’. Then go over to her house & say you wanna use the washroom & then complain, “Haiyo… why your washroom’s light not working..” then get a stool, get on it, make sure it’s the starter’s fault & change it.
  You’ll give her a lil bit sense of security coz she now thinks she can depend on you (and your time) in case anything goes wrong, not only in her kitchen but in her life. (Plus point: You earn scores with her friends too! Worthy only if they are hot as your gf) (with hopes that your gf is hot too)
• Don’t check out hot chicks just to simply make her jealous.
  No, really. However difficult it may seem, TRY your level best to NOT check out a supppaahhh-hott chick until YOUR gf notices her first. It’s easier checking them out then.
  Example:
  Hot girl walks into the cafe. You’ve already noticed her. Try to minimize your conversation with your gf and look at the opposite direction, like you’re looking for someone. Gf will then turn to this side (where the hot chica is walking) & alert you instead.
  “B, don’t look now but see that side.. there’s this damn hot chick laaa..in red..”
  THEN. You, casually, go like, “Huh? Where??”
  Then, you proceed to check that hot chica WITH your gf’s permission. Utilize the given access nicely.
  THEN. You say, “Not thaaaaaat hot also la…”
  She’ll insist that the chick IS hot. Let her argue.
  At that moment, you just hold her hands & say, “Whatever la, sayang. Let her be. You’re all that I want, you sexything.”
  She’ll melt. And probably iron 1-2 shirts of yours.
• Write her a goddamn love letter for heaven’s sake!!!!!
  No, we don’t want pages & pages of poetry. We just want a simple bloody letter from you!! It’s not thaaaaat difficult, is it? Many guys tend to imagine writing a love letter akin to writing a thesis report.
  Don’t know how to start??Here, let me give a few tips.
  - Take an empty piece of paper (CLEAN paper. not from your lecture notes, please.)
  - Find a pen that won’t run out of ink.
  - Write, “To my dearest girlfriend @ -fill.in.her.name.here.-or.a.nickname.-
  - Then, just think of what about her that first comes into your mind. Go on, write, “You know, your smile always makes my day.. there’s something about that cheeky look you have when you smile.. which just seems to elevate all my troubles from my mind.. you casting a spell on me or what arr!!”
  - Yes, make it sound as original as possible. And realistic, please.
  - SET your mind on the theme of your letter. Don’t mix up everything into one. It can be funny, seriously-romantic, sexually-exciting, boring (that probably happens to those who aren’t creative) or even cute+sweet. If it’s going to be a sexually-intense letter, then start it off with how “that dress you wore last night…”. Don’t say “You take my troubles away when I’m depressed” and then immediately continue with how you wanna strip her off her clothes. It will make you sound like a psycho. Trust me.

I guess that’s all for now. 5 tips is quite too many to digest.
Now, guys, go .. find a paper and write that letter!!
: )

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Good luck!

Ohhhh.
And note of reminder : Those tips I’ve mentioned above are solely my opinion based on experience (own & people around me). We’re not always extravaganza. Simple things do make us happy & contented too.

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